favorite things: bondage today

i spent a few hours today with a guy who wanted bottom-centered bondage. he had a little experience but wanted to push his limits. we did two sessions--first i tied him to a chair and bench, arms secured overhead and legs bound to the legs of the bench so they were wide open and for easy access. the first session involved nipple play and cbt with clothespins.

then i tied him spread-eagle on the bed. the second session involved candle wax and clothes pins again. the trick to this kind of s/m play is to always be mixing pleasure with pain. when hot wax is dripping on a boy's chest, the other hand is stroking his hard cock. the mixture of pain and pleasure ramps up the erotic charge.